Dr. Catherine Pearlman is a licensed clinical social worker, a nationally-syndicated columnist, an internationally recognized parenting expert and an assistant professor of social work. She is the author of Ignore It!: How Selectively Looking the Other Way Can Decrease Behavioral Problems and Inc...
Want to Enjoy Your Kids More? Ignore These 4 Misbehaviors
Have you ever felt discouraged about something nice you did and thought to yourself, “I don’t know why I bother?”Consider these two hypothetical scenarios that drive this point home. A friend’s brother was going to have a baby. My friend knew the mom-to-be and her brother would receive everything they needed. So she decided to make the baby a hand-knit sweater to give as a gift.
Most people decide to become parents because they envision the joy and fulfillment of raising children. They picture Sunday mornings filled with endless snuggles. They see dripping ice cream cones sprinkled with laughter. In our parenting fantasies, our children are perfect angels. They put away their toys. They wake up smiling, eager to attend school and complete their homework with determination and focus. Our fantasy kids behave in restaurants and jump at the chance to try new foods.
That’s the question I most often hear after I introduce the concept of rewards to improve behavior. Some parents are resistant to the idea because they assume rewards and bribes are synonymous. They aren’t. There’s actually a huge difference. Rewards improve behavior while bribery can make it worse. Here’s why:Children learn at an early age to act in certain ways to accomplish their goals.
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