It’s Ask Pollypalooza: In honor of the paperback release of How to Be a Person in the World, the Cut brings you a new Ask Polly column every day this week. I’m in a swamp of complicated emotions right now, but I think my question is about monogamy. Knowing that life is long, your options are vast, and eroticism between two people is doomed to die out sooner or later, how can any one person be enough for any one somebody else?
GO GET A FUCKING TREADMILL DESK, ALREADY! No, I’m serious. Go do it. I’ll wait here. Okay, so, if you won’t do it, that means I’m not going to sit around listening to you whine about how your neck hurts and your back hurts and now you wake up with a headache and you can’t sleep anymore. You know what I say to that? Wait until you’re my age, dummy! Wait until your body is changing!
This weekend, after 18 months together, my boyfriend told me that he cared very deeply for me and that we had the best partnership he’d ever experienced, but he did not love me because there was a spark missing. So he ended things in a kind and mature way. We’re both in our 30s and the entire thing has been kind and mature and caring (and sexy and vulnerable and honest) from the beginning. I’ve dated my share of guys who were bad partners, and this guy was a good one.
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