Once you get married, you fall into roles. One partner takes out the trash. The other deals with the cable company. When kids come along, the divvying up continues, from making lunches to helping with math homework. Sometimes it’s based on schedule. Sometimes it’s personal preference, but the stuff usually falls into place and the work gets done. But then there’s the issue of discipline, of what defines acceptable behavior and how deviations from that should be handled.
The crinkling is what I remember most clearly. Sprawled out on the floor of my family room, perusing the Toys ‘R’ Us catalog like the Sunday Times, I flipped through the thin pages, pen in hand, circling play sets and Nerf guns and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. As a kid who came of age in the nineties, the Toys ‘R’ Us catalog was my bible and the store my church. Who could blame me? I couldn’t discern the undertow of marketing and I watched a lot of television.
You might think that your wife has an innate ability to remember your mother’s birthday or which Friday it is that your son is performing in his school play. And you probably know plenty of other dads who have women in their lives who appear to possess some sort of organizational genius when it comes to family scheduling and household tasks.
Hi Twitter, if you or someone you know might be interested in writing (or just have an interesting story) about fatherhood/marriage/raising kids or anything else that falls into those realms, I'd love to hear from you. You can reach me at Matt dot Berical at Fatherly dot com.
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