When I was first diagnosed I said I wouldn’t seek out other HIV positive guys to date, in hindsight that was a mistake. Dating is confusing. This Summer I’ll have been living with HIV for six years. Back in August 2011 when I was diagnosed everything was up in the air, but I told myself that nothing should change when it came to sex and relationships. At the time of my diagnosis I was dating a HIV negative guy who was, initially at least, okay with my status.