What does depression look like? Being sad, right? Feeling hopeless, sleeping or eating too much or too little, being exhausted, unable to focus? Depression is a complicated and misunderstood condition, even now. I’ve come to feel that there are as many different depressions as there are those of us who have it. Though we might have a lot in common, the way that depression is diagnosed means that two people with the diagnosis might only actually share one symptom.