“What are we going to do this weekend?”“I guess… go out in the Castro?”Admit it, you know you’ve had that conversation. You probably had it last Friday, Thursday if you’re a “planner.” I hate to break it to you, but the gays of SF have been having that same exchange for at least the last 16 years. Yes, we love parties. Yes, we love hot dudes and dirty beats. But no, we do not love the status quo. That’s the sentiment that prompted Tom Whitman to look upward… 10,000 feet upward to be exact.