by Frank J. Buchman “I’m at a horsemanship clinic, just got on my horse. The barrel horse banquet is tonight, and a trail ride tomorrow.” That’s the life of Tossie Kirkham. Going lickety split, chatting, right in the middle of everything horses. Finally, a jiffy calming: “I’m always anxious to talk about horses, been busy,” she consented. Go anywhere in northeast Kansas, around the Midwest, say “Tossie,” anybody attracted to horses knows her.