There are very few conversations I won’t get entangled in – top of that list is diet talk and body snark. These types of conversations are hard to avoid in a fatphobic culture where we are expected to always present ourselves as constantly working against our fat selves. As a fat woman, a fat positive one at that, there is nothing I am doing to recover from being fat. To me, it’s okay to be fat. These months, more than winter, are bad for body peace.