I’m wondering if I did the right thing. Last night, my 14-year-old daughter had a sleepover with her best friend, Kimmy, another 14-year-old girl. When I went up to check on them and to say good night, Kimmy was not in the trundle bed I’d made up for her. They were both in my daughter’s bed. They were not doing anything inappropriate … in fact they seemed cute, like two kittens. However, I ordered Kimmy back in her own bed. It had been totally unexpected and startled me; I felt awkward.