She asks, “Honey, how do you think we should do this?”Don’t answer, you don’t need to. You could have the perfect answer but she’s already decided what you are both going to do, how you are going to do it, when, where and what YOU are going to do. Marriage, bound together by love (still is of course), is no longer ruled by it. When we were young, it was an exciting time being together, talking all night, sharing our dreams. Holding each other all night. Now the rules have changed, drastically.