I am just wondering if anyone has been through this, going through it and share views. Sorry for the essay... it's just a overview of events. Me and my husband have been married for 5 years and together for 7. We have two beautiful babies, 2.5years old and 1year old. We currently live separately due to his depression. His depression started when I was pregnant with my youngest. He took a promotion at work and found it stressful.