Meet Uncle Frank and Aunt Martha. You see them only once a year over the holidays. You love them because they are family, but they absolutely drain you. Maybe "love" is too strong a word. If you're honest with yourself, youthem. Uncle Frank can't wait to tell you every detail of his latest aches and pains, whereas Aunt Martha thrives on pointing out what's wrong with just about everybody, including you. When you're with them, you feel trapped and can't wait to escape.