Let’s face it, divorce is horrible. It’s the end of something precious which once brought enough joy to want to commit a lifetime to the other person. It can be a stressful time of great loss, hurt, anger and you will both need time to process and grieve. Having a good divorce may seem impossible at first. But no matter how much you may hate your ex now, hopefully at one time you felt very differently about them. There may be no love left, but you probably started out with love.