It's 2017 and, friends, times are stressful. While stress is a natural occurrence in our daily lives, too much of it can wreak havoc, making us tense, exhausted, and, um, orgasm-less. "Women are often guilty of saying, 'I'm fine, everything's fine!' but left wondering why they can't climax," says sexologist Megan Stubbs, Yep, you read that right—stress will create a huge mental block between you and your grand finale. But don't worry, there's plenty you can do to tune out the noise.