YOU BOTH SEE YOURSELF IN COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PLACES. There’s always the possibility that this could work out, but it’s pretty rare. If you see yourself moving to New York to pursue acting and he wants to settle down in Minneapolis, go to grad school, and start a family, you’re clearly on different pages. It’s better to end it now. THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER THINGS YOU’D RATHER DO THAN HANG OUT WITH HIM. I’m talking work, taking out the garbage, painting your nails… anything.