Share this story: Many people see their sexual orientation as a huge part of who they are. But for me, my identity isn’t really about who I’m attracted to. I remember the day I joined my school’s’ Gay Straight Alliance. I was 14. Completely unexperienced, and trying to figure out what I was. Gay, straight, or bi? The other kids tossed around a bunch of labels: agender, pansexual, androsexual, and non-binary–to name a few.