Rabbit Holes is a recurring series in which writers pay homage to the diversity and ingenuity of the ways we procrastinate now. To pitch your personal rabbit hole, email firstname.lastname@example.org. Sometimes at night, when reality TV leaves me cold and I can’t get into a book, I turn to crime—or, perhaps more accurately, to maybe-crime. I was raised on Unsolved Mysteries and Law & Order, and that fascination with misadventure has stayed with me into adulthood.
It’s so hard to talk about suicide. When I tell someone that in March 2016 my mother … and in April 1995 my father … it’s difficult—and not just because it’s painful. I must be hypervigilant. As I tell the story, I watch people carefully. Are they showing signs of discomfort? Are they suddenly upset because they have been reminded of someone in their own lives? Do they think I am oversharing, burdening them with information that suggests I believe we have a closer friendship than they do?
This piece was originally published in Slate on Sept. 20, 2012. When I recently called my mother to tell her that I was getting married, she was ecstatic. After all, my boyfriend, Chris, and I had been together for nearly 10 years, so he had long been part of the family. “When’s the big day?” she asked me. “In about 20 minutes!” I said, trying to sound perky instead of scared. Though we had decided to get married a few weeks prior, we told almost no one beforehand—not even our parents.
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Selecting a term
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