Too Much Suffering? During a severe trial, you can almost count on a fellow believer saying, “Remember, God will never give you more than you can handle.” It’s usually meant to comfort, but often it does the opposite. For someone already overwhelmed, it can sound like a quiet accusation: If you’re struggling, maybe you’re failing. Many Christians connect that saying to 1 Corinthians 10:13, where Paul writes: “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man.