Before you read: If you want to be part of these conversations live, register for Man Church atwww.manchurch.online. And if this hits home, connect with me on Substack and social: @drjohnaking (Instagram, X, YouTube). Most Christians are taught, “Say yes. Help everyone. Never refuse.” But when you actually read the Word carefully, you discover something that makes people uncomfortable: Sometimes what we call “help” is not help at all. Sometimes it’s enabling. Sometimes it’s sponsoring sin.