In this self-titled column for Input Fort Wayne, Thomas Beckman — known online as @SoBrunchBabe – explores the intimacy of modern adulthood through social commentary, cultural reflection, and personal narrative. With a voice that is equal parts conversational and self-aware, he writes about the evolving identity of Fort Wayne alongside his own, examining relationships, ambition, identity, nightlife, burnout, friendship, and the performances we maintain both online and off.