Nothing was inevitable about Florence Nightingale’s success as a nurse, medical reformer, and statistician. In fact, at 30 years of age, she was distraught as her family refused to let her leave home and staunchly opposed her ambitions to become a nurse. History often reduces people to symbols—the lady with the lamp, in Florence Nightingale’s case. But she was a real, flesh-and-blood person, complete with all the heartache and triumph that attends a full life.