life update is a reader-supported publication. Sign up to read my essays, hear my voice notes and receive my unreleased demos straight to your inbox ♥️ Hello loves, This month brought two more weddings my way — firstly the marriage of sweet Holly and Ben, who happened to choose a venue next to where I grew up. I got a lift to the party from my sister’s boyfriend, quite novel for someone who has had to board flights too see her friends get hitched.