Charity, by Andrea del Sarto, public domain. Interestingly, the theological virtue of charity (later translated love) is often depicted breastfeeding When I tell people I live in an intentional community/micro-monastry/commune I can often sense questions they are too polite to say aloud: Is it a cult? And is there….sex stuff? Reader, if we were a cult I wouldn’t tell you, but there is not sex stuff. However, several times in the last few weeks I have massaged a housemates boobs. It is not sexy.