Rian’s Substack

Conan, you know what’s best in life? not having sex with attractive women. Three pithy aphorisms, one good takeaway Critics are like eunuchs, they know it but they can’t do it. - Paul Bocuse The Red Pill: discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.

The best way to get custody was 20 years ago, the second best time is today. I can’t stand the Men’s Rights Advocates. (MRA) They are whiny, think of themselves as male feminists, have women running their ‘movement’ if that’s even accurate, and I’ve yet to see a win in the last 50 years from them. If I had to sum the idea up, it’s men agreeing with the equality line and deciding to be feminism, but for men. This doesn’t work, since feminism isn’t a movement or an ideology, but a tactic.

I have to go after writing this, and I only have one question. Is the wife being a bitch, or is her husband? Most of the time I pick the saddest of sad sacks to write on. Their experiences are extreme outliers, and good for getting a very basic concept that seems to fly over the head of men, and make it click. This isn’t one of those cases.

I was a smart kid my whole life. Teachers told me. Parents told me. They put me in gifted programs and I tested off the charts in anything I did. So when I was a brand new sailor and my boss told me to get off the CCMS console and go to the heads for cleaning stations, I gave him a speech about how I was able to efficiently create circuits for our task group exercise (TGEX) and save him time. He said, “I’m sure you’re much smarter than me, ordinary seaman.

Everyone in this niche loves to say it’s descriptive, not prescriptive. But people are people, and we all make predictions. In my research I’ve found a lot of old predictions and found out that it’s good that we stick to descriptions, because our prescriptions suck. Having said that, our doom and gloom predictions also suck, so there’s reason for hope. Thankfully, it doesn’t really matter.

Hypergamy as a swing set, which is an analogy I’ll get to in a second. We had it all, and it’s mostly gone. Luckily, I’m like a little league baseball coach: smart enough to coach a team to greatness, stupid enough to take little league seriously enough to want to. Having said that, The Internet never forgets, my ass.

Greetings, everybody. Welcome to the red pill. We’ve got almost a hundred subscribers, in exactly two weeks! This is incredible. Why have we grown so quickly? Because there’s truth in the red pill. Because men are realizing that the sexual marketplace has shifted away from what we’ve been taught. Men who grew up over thirty years ago are discovering the world has changed.

I’m going to discuss briefly what my intention is for this subreddit. I’m Desmond, and I’ve been active in both the Men’s Rights and the Seduction subreddits. They’re both wildly popular subs, but both have major failings that I’ve slowly identified. They both operate subtly under the feminist imperative.

working on a piece on sexual coercion in intimate relationships & how having sex when you don’t want to is not a neutral experience. if you feel comfortable, would you either comment below or DM me how it feels to “give in and get it over with” to avoid moodiness/stonewalling. to be clear, I’m specifically talking about instances where you have consented, but you did not want to consent, if that makes sense?

You see, 80% of women initiate 70% of divorces so I can’t piss off the wife!? I hate statistics. I openly mock people, whether I agree with their conclusions or not for using them. By the end you’ll see why, and why men are setting themselves up for failure by using them, and how it’s all a proxy for being afraid of female disapproval. Full Subscribers get the cooler stuff.