Rian’s Substack

I’m not throwing shade. Georgi is a kind person, a loving mother, and from what I know, a good wife. But if the best of us are this angry when guys take steps to control their lives, we just might not make it. What you have here is a hypothetical: a wife who refuses to sleep with her husband while enjoying all the benefits of marriage. Learned helplessness. While the husband in hypothetical, real men live like this. Too many.

Almost nothing in my work is marriage specific. As much as the average frustrated, temporarily disenfranchised father in waiting would have you believe, a ring and a certificate don’t have the power to make a wife act right. Life isn’t compartmentalized like that. For the guys who say they are really good at being social, charming and carry swag at work, but inept at home, they are bullshitting themselves.

My husband and I have been together for 5 years, married for 2 of those years. We just bought a house 5 months ago. No kids yet. Our lives have been crazy busy though. We spent all spring renovating our new house. At my job I was given nearly double my usual workload after some of my colleagues were laid off. I gained some weight in the winter and have been busting my ass at the gym to get rid of it.

When was the last time you just, sat around and played with your girls tits then left without a second thought? Red Pill is strategy, praxeology, efficacy. Amoral, low rigor and high replication. Low in fiber, high in calories, and full of autism but capable of greatness. It’s not really a thing at all, it’s patterns, notes and practice, full of mental models and strategies. This strategy is called separating sex from intimacy.

We’ve had a couple of guys post on this topic — asking how to make a move on your wife’s friends. It’s really EASY! Don’t. I would say I’m amazed I would even have to write this, but when emotions, thirst and the internet combine, surprise is the first victim. This isn’t a moral prescription, this is a practical one. I frankly don’t care if you fuck your wife’s friends or not. I don’t get to nut, and I don’t get the aftermath.

What is game and why play at all? Why not take your toys and go home? Game, simply put, is the social and sexual interplay between men and women. Sometimes it’s no sexuality and all social. Sometimes it’s all sexual and not social. Game is the interplay between men and women. It doesn’t matter whether you’re married, single, relationship or otherwise, you are always playing the game unless you’re not interacting with the opposite sex at all.

George Floyd has been sober for 1657 days No one will read this, but the video will get your attention. If it bleeds it leads. Bodycam footage has been released showing Henry Nowak begging for an ambulance before being handcuffed behind his back. “I’ve been stabbed” Nowak said. The cop glibly responded, “I don’t think you have mate” What a horrible situation. It’s the slippery slope, you’d think, except we are at the bottom.

I promised, and after three months of doing anything else, I’m finally getting around to it. This is difficult for me, and you should know of my conflicts going in. First, I generally approach people writing in the same genres as me the way Regan approached trickle down economics. A rising tide lifts all boats. I want every one of these books to sell like hotcakes. The more people that pick these as their first RP books are inclined to read other RP books.

Broadly, everything I know about making a living online that you can use. I don’t know how to make a hook for this. It’s a decade of my observations in the online business space, peripheral information from my time as a Desktop Publisher (blue collar graphic design) and Top Secret cleared Naval Communicator. It’s dry, boring, and extremely important. And when I say important, I mean it pays the bills, pays the mortgage, and gives me the freedom to work from anywhere in the world I want.

They are weak, but they don't have to be. More than anything, Jason wanted to be liked. It’s on Page 1, No More Mr. Nice Guy. Of all the things that have been written, spoken, or acted on in the last 20 years in this space, from soup to nuts, dick to butts, that one line is the best summary of the main problem for men. Guys are too nice. Single guys are too nice. They don’t want to sound mean, and what mean, means, has been twisted to the point that nice means pathetic. Married guys are too nice.