Ada Ünlü As someone who was born and grew up in Istanbul and spent 17 years there, I only truly understood its beauty and what the city means to me after spending five years living in other cities and countries. When I was living in Istanbul, I never felt like I fully belonged. I attended a French school, was more integrated into French culture, and dreamed of living in Paris after graduating from high school. However, after leaving, I began to realize the importance Istanbul holds in my life.