Money is more than math in a relationship. It’s trust, power, and priorities. After listening to a call about a couple living in a home financed by the fiancé’s father (with a credit card covered by him, too), I came away convinced: this isn’t generosity, it’s control. And if you allow it into your marriage, you’re inviting conflict. My view is simple: marriage requires adult independence, joint decisions, and clean money boundaries. When a parent acts as the bank, they also become the boss.