Dear Pre-Divorce Self, I so vividly remember where you're at — the months leading up to a massive decision. You haven't taken it lightly and you'll agonize about what to do (keep working on the marriage or end it) until you actually do it: get divorced. Making a decision after a long period of indecision will feel damn good. Soak it up; uncertainty is just around the corner. These next two years will be a time of growth, sadness, excitement, contentment, and, above all, transition.