Picture this: someone you have never met or spoken to before walks up to you, or worse – DMs you, tells you their salary, mentions that they want three kids, and proposes. Do you accept? Of course not. For starters, you may not even be looking to get married right now. And even if you are, you would want to know a little about them first. Enough familiarity to make you want to get to know them better. Then you would put in the time to determine if this person is the right match for you.