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People Share Their One Key Rule For A 'Friends With Benefits' Relationship
Friends with benefits can seem like a good idea... in theory. Everybody has a carnal itch to scratch now and again. But FWB can have unexpected repercussions. Not having firm rules and boundaries in place can lead to chaos and heartbreak. It's a tale as old as time. So how do we minimize the damage?
Unbothered People Explain How They Became Immune To A-Holes
Being able to walk away from toxic people is a skill. Too many of us have wasted too much time in life on people who drag us down. It's not up to us to change, fix, or better anyone else... especially if it's at our own expense. I hate to think about the years I spent taking abuse from other people. Or trying to figure out why some people treated me and the world a certain way.
Modern 'Conveniences' That Actually Make Life Harder
Making life simpler... That is always the goal, right? Modernize this, eliminate that! All so the everyday can be more convenient. How are those plans going? I have to say, some of the advancements in simplicity haven't really done much to delete stress. In fact, some modern assistance has hindered the everyday life quite drastically. Or maybe I'm just being grumpy and nostalgic. Let's take a look at the list.
Most Telling Signs That Someone Is Smarter Than They Let On
Brains and smarts. Those two things don't always go together. Just because we have brains doesn't automatically mean everyone knows how to use them. Then there are some people who are wicked smart, and they don't even realize it. Like people who can solve a Rubik's cube... that thing is still the bane of my existence.
Disturbing Backstories Behind Seemingly Wholesome Things
Does the truth really set us free? I believe one would like to think so. But the truth can be more than we bargained for. It has the power to ruin everything, especially illusion. Once we know the sordid details behind so much of life's prettier things, we may never be the same. I, for one, am someone who has to know the tea. No matter how scalding.
Historical Events That Sounds Fake But Are True: REDDIT
There are some life events that make you want to shake your head and say, "This wouldn't even seem real in the movies." But it's true, life can be crazier than what any writer could concoct. This can be said about world history. Some of civilization's bloodiest and nuttiest battles sound like a plot out of a bad Netflix series. But if we do some deep diving into the past, we will find outlandish truth beyond our comprehension.
People Admit The Biggest Lies Adults Made Them Believe As A Kid
Why adults choose to lie or hide things from children is something I'll never understand. Though explicit details and facts aren't always necessary, the basics are reasonable. There are fun lies, like Santa and the Easter Bunny, but then there are lies that are just ridiculous. And it's all for the sole purpose of manipulation. I was fed a few doozies back in my day.
People Describe The Worst Things Their Coworkers Got Fired Over
The workplace is a battlefield. It doesn't matter if it's an office or a restaurant. All the characters are at play constantly. And firings are the HEIGHT of drama and entertainment! I've seen co-workers try to burn down the building as they leave. I've seen tables overturned and tears shed. Oh, a dramatic co-worker firing can be legendary. It's especially delicious when people are guilty of their nonsense but they REFUSE to give in. Magic happens.
People Who Had A Marriage Proposal Rejected Share Their Stories
Marriage proposals are a turning point in a relationship. A new era of life is about to begin. Or... maybe not. In all the excitement and build-up of the thought of marriage, some people dive in with false confidence. Not everybody gets a "Yes" to a proposal. How could a person say "No" to another person in one of their most vulnerable life moments? It happens more than we realize. Sometimes, it still works out.
People Reveal Why They Quit Their Job On The Spot
Not every job or career is meant to be. Our guts and our instincts will usually let us know. Listen to those signs! They are there for a reason.
People Debate Which Professions Will Die Out Within A Decade
With the rise of AI and automation, many careers feel like they could be on the chopping block. As much as some life advancements in science and labor have been brilliant, many human-based positions are deemed irrelevant. Redditor Toomad316 wanted to discuss the jobs that are becoming obsolete, so they asked: "Which profession is going to get wiped out in the next 5-10 years?" "By the looks of it, being a federal employee." - Ok_Stop7366 "Them, and us who rely on federal funding for our jobs.
The Most Absurd Ways People Have Gotten Rich Quick
Money, money, money... it's a rich man's world! Now, imagine you suddenly find a windfall. There are ways to acquire loads of cash... LEGALLY!! I've heard of these rumors. And I think we all want to know more. Redditor randomprogrammer23 wanted to hear about all of the ways people have found sudden wealth, so they asked: "What’s the most ridiculously absurd way you’ve seen someone get rich in no time?" "Back in the early 2000s, this one kid figured out how to make a website.
People Reveal The Small Things That Completely Changed How They See The World
The world can be amazing. But humans tend to always miss it To be fair to humans, life is rough. So we're often distracted by the terrible. The amazing then falls by the wayside. Also, the amazing tends to be quiet and subtle. Pay attention to the small things. You won't be disappointed.
People Reveal The Reason Why They 'NOPED' Out Of A Date
Searching for love can be a torturous process. In fact, just the idea of looking for love can turn you off on love. Dating is a marathon of nonsense. At least, that is my experience. One is supposed to bring their A-game to a date. More often than not, people are just throwing foul balls. And they have no idea they're striking out.
People Explain How They Saw Someone Ruin Their Life in Mere Minutes
Seconds matter more than we can realize. Every decision we make fashions every breath we live. That is daunting. Even innocent decisions have life-changing effects. We can't stop making decisions. But we have to be prepared for the consequences. Redditor rentinghappiness wanted to hear stories about the times people saw other people's lives crash and burn; so they asked: "Do you know (of) someone who ruined their life in just a matter of minutes?
People Divulge The Must Hurtful Thing Someone Ever Said To Them
Why can't we lead with love or, at the very least, a little humanity? I've heard outrageously mean-spirited things said, not just to myself but to others. The horrifying things I overheard when I was waiting tables would send a shiver down my spine. I've heard lovers spew bile and revel in stories of infidelity. I've heard parents call their children everything from worthless to ugly. And vice-versa. It's terrible. You can't unhear such things, not as a witness and certainly not as a victim.
People Explain Which Things They Will Never Do Again In Their Lifetime
You never get a do-over in life. Which is so unfortunate. If only I could take specific moments from life and do them correctly. Oh well, what was meant to be... was. Life is littered with actions and experiences that so many of us would never want to relive. But also full of moments that aren't available for a repeat. The good, the bad, and the ugly of past experiences. Well, at least we have them.
People Who Live In Small Towns Share The Hottest Local Controversies Right Now
Small town drama. There is nothing else like it. Everybody knows everybody. And memories have a long backlog. Church people will never let you forget past sins. But that's what keeps life in a small town going. Controversy and scandal are just part of the DNA. That's why they're featured in so many "Criminal Minds" episodes.
People Who Make Over $10k A Month Explain What They Do For A Living
There are so many ways to make money. But so many of us can't figure out the best options. Too many jobs that bring in the big bucks are dangerous. And most are unfulfilling. However, a lot of people have found the way. Redditor voxishortie wanted to hear about we can all make the big bucks, so they asked: "For those earning over $10K per month, what do you do for a living to achieve that income?" "Crane operator in the oilfield. Work 13 hours a day for 20 days then I’m off 10.
People's Biggest Culture Shock Moments Moving From Cities To Small Towns
Moving to a quieter way of life can be a HUGE process. During COVID, people fled big cities like New York and LA in droves, searching for a calmer way of life. For some, it was the best decision they ever made, for others... they wept about their mistakes on TikTok. There is a major system overhaul when you change your environment drastically. I'm typing now from a beach in Florida, where a mere 2 years ago, I was bundled in layers of blankets in my freezing Jersey City abode. I love both.
People Explain Which 'Rich Person Things' They'd Get Into If They Had Money
Money can buy a lot of happiness. But it can't buy everything, like love. It can garner you a lot, though. We all have grand ideas on how to spend money. There is so much to acquire, and with lots of wealth, you can have it all. Redditor Short_Function_5062 wanted to discuss the ways we'd all spend endless amounts of money, so they asked: "What is a rich person thing that you would be totally into if you became rich?" "Not working.
Things That Initally Flopped But Became A Classic: REDDIT
More often than not, hindsight is 20/20. It takes looking back to appreciate or revitalize certain things in life. Sometimes, appreciation and success come through the slow burn effect. Not everything created is a win right out of the starting gate. Certain things take time to grow. That's why people get so moody about TV shows being canceled too soon or Broadway shows shuttering quickly. It can take time to find an audience. The same can be said about getting somebody to love you.
People Describe Their Worst Experiences At A Sleepover
I miss sleepovers. They were a highlight of my life, not just my childhood... but my entire life. I've been trying to cajole my friends into an adult slumber excursion for years. My attempts have been met with muted disappointment. For many, though, sleepovers didn't go over as well. Some overnights were derailed by family unpleasantness, nightmares, and illness. I've heard horror stories that left people traumatized.
Events That Divided Peoples' Lives 'Before' & 'After': REDDIT
Life can be so cruel sometimes. Everything you know and depend on can change in a matter of seconds. Certain life events fracture our lives. So much so that we can look back and pinpoint how we changed and WHEN. There are just some moments that change us, physically, mentally, emotionally... forever. All we can do is cope and adjust.
The Absolute Stupidest Things Disney Princesses Have Done In Their Films
Nobody is perfect, especially a movie princess. In fact, most movie Princesses are a hot HOT mess. That's what usually drives the plot. A Disney Princess making bad or dumb choices is what keeps us all glued to the screen. But sometimes you can't help but watch and wonder... "Girl, what are you thinking?" Many a time I have yelled at the screen trying to give sage advice. Of course, they never listen. I suppose that could be what also makes them endearing.
The Fastest Ways CEOs Ruined A Company: REDDIT
Have you ever worked for a person in a very powerful position? Or for a person who has made tons of money? And when you looked at them, you couldn't help but think... "How can someone this stupid be this far ahead in life?" It's maddening. So many people have been given titles like CEO, only to tarnish and destroy the legacies of hard work. And many do it on a global scale.
People Reveal Why They Stopped Talking To Their Best Friend
Sometimes, not all relationships are meant to last. That is just a cold, hard truth about life. You can be best, BEST, BEST friends with someone for decades, and then one day you suddenly become strangers. And in many instances, there is no clear answer as to why. It's sad but it is what it is. Of course, that doesn't make the pain any easier to deal with. Moving on is all we can do. Hopefully, when everyone parts ways they can at least look back fondly and not with pain or malice.
The Worst Things People Have Seen Happen At A Wedding
I love raucous weddings. Weddings where we dance the night away are a favorite, and maybe some debaucherous hanky panky is committed in a broom closet. All of the pure fun parts of life. I even love the drama at some weddings... The ones where family secrets get spilled. Or when in-laws are throwing punches and tossing down shots. I was at a wedding once where the Uncle got up to give a toast and said... "Oh please.
People Reveal The Pettiest Thing Their Ex Took From Them In The Divorce
Divorce is rarely ever easy and fun. No one exits unscathed. And besides the emotional trauma of it all, you must deal with the mundane and boring minutia. The topic of "who gets what and why" can bring out the pure evil in everybody. I've seen divorces where people ripped up carpeting because they chose the color. Never mind the kids and the pets and the plants. You haven't seen anything until you've seen people reclaiming light bulbs at midnight. I kid you not.
People Reveal Secrets About Their Job No One Is Supposed To Know
Every workplace has its issues and secrets. And the sooner they're exposed, the better. This is especially true when it comes to food service. But in the end, most of what we're about to "find out " are things we already knew on some level. I don't go to IHOP for the cleanliness, but I do love the pancakes regardless. And here's a little tip from my last experience: movie popcorn in the early part of the day is mostly from the night before. Just FYI.
People Divulge The Best Money-Saving Hacks They've Picked Up
Money makes the world go around. And in this day and age, finding ways to hold onto every cent of it feels imperative. I'm big on clearance sales and weekly coupons. I'll buy in bulk on the 2-for-1 deals. You can make stuff last until the next big deal comes back on. I also find that it's been helpful to try to track monthly sales. Most supermarkets repeat the same deals every 3-5 weeks. Creating a shopping pattern can be very helpful to the bank account. Unless, of course, you can win the lotto.
The Scariest Things People've Ever Seen That They Can't Quite Explain
Life is scary, and not just for the obvious reasons. I mean scary as in "The Exorcist" scary. We've all witnessed things that have left us SHOOK to the core. And even though we saw it with our own two eyes, we can't explain it. The inability to define what we've seen is part of the shock of it all. How do you describe a ghost accurately? Or the shadow lurking in the dark? Is what I'm seeing actually real? The mind does have its tricky ways. The mystery of the darkness is a forever question.
People Imagine Which Historical Figures Would've Made A Bigger Impact If They'd Lived Longer
No matter who you are or where you come from, life is never long enough. There will always be more to do and more to say. Certain people's stories though are cut entirely too short. Some people's impacts are enormous. History is littered with what-ifs. What if this person or that person had lived just a little longer? Could the course of the world have changed? All they needed was a little more time.
Straight Guys Share The Strangest Thing They've Been Told Not To Do Because It's 'Gay'
Real men only ever do REAL MAN things! What is a REAL MAN thing anyway? Because I've attended Super Bowl parties in gay dance clubs, and the whole game was actually watched and paid attention to, not just the halftime show. Now was there chatter and pool playing during the game? Yes. Did any and all activity stop when halftime started? And did everyone participate in the song and dance routines? HELL YES!! What could be more manly than that?
People Reveal The Worst Thing Their Parents Have Ever Said To Them
Not everybody is meant to be a parent. In fact, for some people, the most merciful thing to do in life is to abstain from parenthood. The vile language that some parents say to their kids is heartbreaking. The movie and book "Precious" happens every day, all over the world. Young children and adult children are mercilessly subjected to violent rhetoric being tossed at them by the people who are meant to love them most. This is why mental health services should be free from birth.
People Reveal The Absolute Worst Gifts They've Ever Received
"It's the thought that counts." That's been the lifelong mantra when it comes to gift-giving. And how often are people left wondering... "What thought?" I know when someone has just pulled a random eight-year-old regift out of the back of the closet and threw some tin foil over it. I wasn't born yesterday. And this is not how you celebrate my birth. This nonsense of horrible gift-giving must end.
People Describe The Absolute Worst First Dates They've Ever Been On
First dates are always an issue. You want to put your best version of yourself out there. But that isn't always easy. Even when you're doing your best, you can't guarantee that your company will do the same. This can lead to disastrous results. First dates can then become bad on a legendary level. Although this makes for a good story, living through them isn't fun. The road to love is littered with horrific first dates. But you have to try and start somewhere. Let's share and compare notes.
People Share The Signs They Knew Their Relationship Was Over
Love can be a wonderful thing. Some say... "love is all you need." That is until it's the last thing you need. Not every love story ends happily ever after. One of the saddest parts of a crumbling relationship is when nobody acknowledges that it's over. Ignoring that fact is brutal. But if we pay attention the signs and red flags are there. We must learn to embrace them and share them for others to learn about.
People Reveal The Worst Thing Their Parents Have Ever Said To Them
Not everybody is meant to be a parent. In fact, for some people, the most merciful thing to do in life is to abstain from parenthood. The vile language that some parents say to their kids is heartbreaking. The movie and book "Precious" happens every day, all over the world. Young children and adult children are mercilessly subjected to violent rhetoric being tossed at them by the people who are meant to love them most. This is why mental health services should be free from birth.
People Break Down The Weirdest Things Their Girlfriends Do
Everybody has special quirks. We're human, it's natural behavior... sometimes. I mean not every action is 100% "normal." But if we aren't hurting anyone... then who cares? Everybody apparently. It can be cumbersome in a relationship to deal with a partner's eccentricities. It can be especially difficult if the behavior is displayed randomly, like in public. Some actions defy explanation.
People Describe The Moment They Knew Something Was 'Off' About Their Family
Leave it to Beaver was a lie. No family is perfect. In fact, we're all really more like "The Bear." That's not to say these aren't great families. It's just that some have darker "issues" than others. When you're living in a certain atmosphere every day, you tend to not notice a family dynamic that isn't as normal as it should be. It takes stepping out into the world and seeing other's dynamics at play to make you think... "Hm. Maybe WE have a problem." That can be a harsh truth to grasp.
People Divulge The Hardest News They've Ever Had To Break To Someone
I hate having to give bad news. When I was in management, I would get my stomach all tangled up when I had to fire people, even the ones who deserved it. In the past, when I've done casting, nothing is worse than telling someone they didn't get their dream part. It's soul-crushing for everyone. Nobody wants to dash other people's spirits and happiness. You never forget their faces.
People Reveal The Secrets They Suspect Loved Ones Are Keeping From Them
My family harbors so many secrets. We've got everything from unsolved murders to the Mafia. I've always been afraid to ask questions. Sometimes, less is more. People's secrets are their own. We've all got them. And as much as I loathe curiosity, it can often be the worst instinct to act upon. Unless someone is cheating on you or stealing from you... or plotting murder, just keep your eyes looking forward. Try not to let that feeling in your gut get you mixed up in unnecessary drama.
People Share Red Flags To Look Out For During A Job Interview
Finding a job can be a tricky situation these days. It feels like everyone is searching high and low. But even desperation and financial concern are not enough reasons to take just any old gig. Some career opportunities are too good to be true or a complete disaster. Can't you just feel the unease in the air when you enter into certain interviews? That pit in your stomach, the gnawing in your gut, is your sixth sense telling you to run. Listen to that feeling.
People Divulge The Hardest News They've Ever Had To Break To Someone
I hate having to give bad news. When I was in management, I would get my stomach all tangled up when I had to fire people, even the ones who deserved it. In the past, when I've done casting, nothing is worse than telling someone they didn't get their dream part. It's soul-crushing for everyone. Nobody wants to dash other people's spirits and happiness. You never forget their faces.
Things That Most People Romanticize That Are Actually Horrible
When something seems too good to be true, it usually is. That is one of life's first lessons. And one of life's most prolific. Do we take the warnings? Rarely. Humans can't help but be dazzled by a sparkly facade. I'm guilty, too. We romanticize too many things that are not good for us or just plain wrong in general.
People Break Down Which Things Are Dangerously Close To Collapse
Anything and everything can come crashing down at any moment. We have to stay aware of that. Of course, it's not healthy to dwell on it. But sometimes we have no choice. Fear of something collapsing is a real thing. That's why I try to avoid bridges... and love. So many things need some serious fixing. I'm tired of seeing stories about train derailments. Even our airplanes are falling apart, not just out of the sky, but apart. Doors are flying off. Jesus take the wheel...
People Divulge The Worst Things To Ever Happen To Them In A Relationship
Relationships. Who needs them? Apparently, we all do. Oh, the hoops of fire so many of us will jump through. The truth is... we're all afraid to die alone. But in a love story or not, we ALL die alone. And a bad relationship can get us to the end faster if we let it. The stories I've witnessed. The things I've seen loved ones go through. It's a wonder I ever created profiles on these apps. I know firsthand the trauma of love gone wrong. As do most of us.
People Who Make $150k A Year Explain What They Do For Work
Everybody wants a great salary. In this day and age, a large salary is becoming a must for survival. A three-figure career is feeling like a necessity. So what are these jobs and how do we find them? I've heard about a few of them that were a no-go right away for me. That's because they involved death-defying actions. Window washers for skyscrapers make about $85/hr to start but you have to hover on top of the world and trust the strength of the plywood you are standing on.
People Who've Been Caught Hooking Up Outdoors Share Their Experiences
Ahhh, love out in the outdoors. There is something about the fresh air and the hint of danger. Although once we get caught we suddenly realize that danger is bad. Redditor solar233 wanted everyone to share their outdoor love-making scandals, so they asked: "Have you ever been caught while being intimate outdoors?
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