I have found that with many men there are four main attributes they will display to show you they care: give, please, serve or fix. Although each of these attributes can be a great thing, they can also be negative if the guy only has one of these qualities and/or how he represents it. 1. A Giver is a guy who shows his affection through gift giving. This guy will give presents, flowers, trips, jewelry and/or expensive dinners. What woman doesn't like a guy to buy her things?