To: The old standard of beauty From: Coach Jen Welter Charity: Girl Up Sponsor: Steve Nelson is donating $25 to Girl Up in honor of the first 25 shares of Jen's story To the old standard of beauty, You told young girls like me to make sure we wear makeup, do our hair and wear the perfect dress, while we wait for a guy to change our whole story. The women you told us about include Cinderella and Snow White. No offense to Snow White, but she just laid there until some guy kissed her and woke her up.