Ending up all alone for the rest of your life — this is probably the biggest fear most single women have today. Ironically, it is the fear itself that ends up keeping them from finding a good partner and having a healthy relationship. Being fearful all the time radiates an extremely stressful and tense persona. Perhaps you are waiting for the relationship to come so you will stop being afraid and start being happy, loving, and confident. However, the relationship can't come first — happiness should.