Discovering that your child might need more help than you can provide can feel both scary and overwhelming. You might even feel caught off guard when you realize that your child has a mental health issue. And while it can be tempting to blame yourself or wonder what you could have done differently, the truth is that no one is to blame. Just as you would with any medical diagnosis, the key is to find the kind of therapy that will a make a difference your child's quality of life.