The traditional inheritance model is simple: You save your whole life, you die, and your kids get whatever is left. More and more retirees are questioning that sequence. If the money is going to your children anyway, why not give some of it while you’re around to see what it does for them? It’s a fair question, and for a growing number of families, the answer is yes. But the order of operations matters enormously, and getting it wrong can damage both your retirement and your kids.