Mom and Dad when they were both a little more mobile, in January 2018. Nat HartshorneIt’s my turn, and I’ve been on deck for many years. For the past few days I’ve been taking care of my parents, who are 86 and 91, and for the eldest of the two, my dad, a tough bout with cancer that’s bringing pain and discomfort. I am the only sibling who doesn’t live right near the family compound in New Jersey. So I have taken my shifts, filled my name on the calendar, and been here to help.