When you’re ending a relationship, there’s pretty much only one reason why: You don’t feel the same anymore, and you don’t want to be with them. Maybe the relationship began too quickly, a “mission trip mishap” of sorts. Maybe it’s a high school relationship that protruded into college. Whatever it is, you’ve grown apart, and for the sake of both of you, it needs to end. Breaking up is difficult on both ends: Someone is going to be hurt, regardless.