In the midst of the national #metoo phenomenon, Illinois women wrestle with their own experiences. He kissed her so hard she had bruises her neck. Then, when they left the bar, he managed to pull her pants down in an alley. She talked him out of raping her that night in 2008. But Molly McLay was unable to stop a later attack by a different man. She had been so intoxicated that she blacked out and awoke to find the person she had been dating had had sex with her without her consent.