Vicki Gray
Brantford
I am editor-in-chief of 4Brant, a community activist and I'm pretty sure I'm human.
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What the NFL Didn't Teach Me About Sex
Go Back to All Romance and Sex Resources Derwin and Vicki Gray · Editor’s note: Derwin and Vicki Gray are contributors to FamilyLife’s all-new Art of Marriage™ . Want to know more? Check out ArtofMarriage.com. Since I (Derwin) was 13, football has been one of the most important things in my life. At that age, I decided football was going to provide a way out of my living situation and provide a better life for me.
Getting Super Steamy With Shower Shows on Cam
Winter is creeping up on us again and autumn is already in full swing, so it’s time to shift our focus away from outdoor camming show ideas to activities we can do inside where it’s warm and cozy.
Building Your Cam-fidence
Feeling confident on cam and off cam is very important, especially with the ups and downs of this career that can take up a lot of your personal time.
Catering to North American Fans on Cam
All fans are great fans, but whether you’re a North American (NA) performer or streaming from another country, it’s a great feeling — and highly lucrative — to be well known to a Western audience. Not only are those fans more likely to visit you during trade shows in the region, but you can also ship prizes and merchandise to them more easily if you’re based in places like the U.S. or Canada.
Tools for Staying Organized With Camming
From Excel sheets to online calendaring, here are some useful software programs and strategies for managing your camming schedule and private show requests, as well as tracking average tips-per-session to gauge which activities and times are most lucrative. A lot of people think being a cam model is easy and something anyone can do. It definitely is something anyone can try, but it takes effort in order to succeed.
Essential Books for Cam Entrepreneurs
Whether you are completely new to camming or a cam veteran, there’s no such thing as knowing too much. And if you want to get serious about succeeding in the industry, then continuing to learn and being open to advice and change will be key. Education is important, and sometimes necessary, for almost any industry, and you should treat camming like a job if you want to make money. This helps you create credibility under your belt.
Putting on an Engaging Voyeur-style Cam Show
Whether you’re putting on makeup, doing your hair, showering or running errands, sometimes the very act of day-to-day activities makes for the perfect cam show. Creating a sense of voyeurism and authenticity can be just as interesting to viewers as performing an overtly sexualized experience. Remember, there are so many different types of viewers and fans, so be sure to create a variety of experiences in all your shows.
Juggling Private and Public Messages Live on Cam
We all know that being a successful cam model is much more than just stripping for viewers if you want to make money long-term and be memorable. There is a lot of multitasking going on between putting on a visually pleasing show as well as interacting with viewers in your chat, from moderating your chat to making sure you’re in control of what’s going on.
7 Conversation Starters to Liven Up Quiet Chatrooms
There will always be good and bad days when you’re camming and although there is no quick fix to dealing with a quiet or even a silent chatroom, there are tips and tricks that can help get things moving. We all know that a silent chat room can be daunting, somewhat inevitable, and in most cases painful. It can really have an impact on your confidence, energy and morale, not to mention that if it is happening too often, it may take a toll on your income and financial goals.
Companionship, Advice and Fetishes Drive Fan Desires for Cam Models
What many would have originally considered a niche business within adult entertainment, camming has grown into a multibillion-dollar industry and is steadily expanding. Cam models attract millions of viewers every year and so it’s vital to examine why individuals pay a premium for live experiences. Many fans seek out sex workers because they offer a judgement-free space to explore unique kinks, companionship, a boost of confidence and more based on personal needs.
Planning Ahead for a Successful Cam Show
Whether you are new to camming or a veteran cam star, it’s always important to keep your shows fresh, new and exciting. Of course, viewers are excited to see you, but why not add in a little bonus that will make your show even more memorable. The goal is to have your viewers hit your subscribe button so they leave satisfied, but are always curious about what your next show will consist of.
The Truth About Climaxes on Cam
A lot of people think that all cam girls and guys start out confident about their bodies and their sexuality, but that isn’t always the case and a lot of the time, cam stars have stated that their cam journey is what helped develop their sexual confidence. When you begin broadcasting a show, although viewers are the ones that tip, it is up to you to set boundaries and create a safe space that you feel comfortable in.
Sex Tales: Chaturbate's Latest SFW Series Brings Out the Best in Adult
Camming network Chaturbate and its visionary COO Shirley Lara have a well-earned reputation for being cutting-edge, whether it’s leading the way in terms of site technology, rolling out gangbusters marketing campaigns or empowering models to feel good and do good. This year, they’ve made an especially huge splash in creating top-of-the-line SFW content. It’s always so much fun to interview fellow models because we can relate on so many things ... you always learn something new from each other.
Cam Model Prep for a Possible Second Wave
The inevitable second wave feels like it’s here, with cases rising and additional restrictions being put on citizens so things don’t get out of control; another possible lockdown doesn’t seem too unbelievable. The first lockdown took a toll on sex workers, whether it was strip clubs closing down or adult film sets being shut down, the struggle of making ends meet became a reality for many.
Battling Big Tech: It's Time to Take Instagram to Task for Discriminatory Sex Worker Censoring
Discrimination against adult workers has become a common theme among mainstream social media platforms. We find ourselves removed as users at an alarming rate from them, and while many may ponder the reasoning or intent behind the account removals, others have questioned if this act is truly discrimination.
Self-Made Paysite Honcho: The Liberty of Running My Own Studios
There are many platforms these days that give everyone the power of being their own producer: OnlyFans, Pornhub, FanCentro, Clips4sale, ManyVids … they’re great. I got my start by producing on Clips4Sale in 2010, and it’s worked out well for me. By 2011, though, I already saw the need to build my own stand-alone website where I manage and own everything. Here’s why. First of all: the money. It isn’t irregular to get 1,000 paying members for a paysite and some of my sites cost $34.99 per month.
From Cam Model to Playboy Starlet: Bringing My Passion for Cinematic Legends to Life
After just getting into a car wreck, I downed a glass of wine after I arrived at my XBIZ L.A. panel in January 2020. I was asked to speak with A-list porn stars while keeping it together in the most packed room I have ever publicly spoken in. I had two options: completely fold under the pressure of being selected as the top cam performer for this panel or keep it absolutely real and be my unconventional self. For the past five years, I’ve maintained my composure in adult through authenticity.
Planning Ahead for Holiday Cam Success
The warm days of summer have slowly faded into autumn, and the pumpkin spice is flowing like wine. While this is a great time to get your latte fix and put the finishing touches on your sexy Halloween costume, you may also want to start thinking about your holiday webcam shows. Yes, it’s only October. And yes, it’s annoying when people start talking about Christmas before Halloween is even over.
6 Easy Steps to Shut Down Haters in Chat
I first began camming seven years ago when I made the decision that I wanted more independence and to be able to take care of myself. My boyfriend (and now husband) had mentioned camming to me, so I decided to try it out. When I first logged onto Chaturbate and just watched the other girls, it was amazing to see them enjoying themselves and being so comfortable in their bodies.
Making Your October Spook-tacular on Cam
It’s almost midnight, October 31 to be exact, and it’s time for your annual Halloween cam show — so you get those cat ears on and start your show as you typically would. Suddenly, there’s some ruffling in the background and viewers ask if it’s a roommate or a pet, but you let everyone know that you have neither. The show must go on ... that is, until you hear the faint sound of nails tapping — viewers tell you it must be a neighbor, but it slowly gets louder and then silence — it stops.
Converting Viewers Into Tippers
There seems to be an ongoing trend with newer cam models or people thinking about getting into camming that all you need to do is look good, sit in front of a camera and tips begin to stream in; unfortunately, it’s not that easy. But as we know, no job is! Taking the time to learn and putting in the proper amount of effort will increase your tips and maybe land you a few giant tippers. Let’s start off by pretending that you are the viewer.
Healing Cam Loneliness During Social Distancing
Sex work and cam modeling can be empowering. Being wanted or desired is extremely enticing and although it comes with some mental uphill battles, there are many positives as well. Since stress and isolation can prove to be difficult, staying connected to friends as well as the online community of models is extremely important for mental health.
Q&A: Lily LaBeau Is Fiercely Empowered
Lily LaBeau is a real sweetheart whose evolution from adult stardom to camming greatness is a testament to the fiercely empowering freedom that comes with independence. The many thousands of fans she amassed from her days of performing in studio-shot movies and the multitudes of adoring followers she has gained from camming on Chaturbate, fuel her continually ascendant career.
Myths vs. Truths About the Camming Industry
Camming can be a lot of fun and it most definitely is a learning experience filled with obstacles, which are all a part of the process. Debunking some myths and figuring out what is true about the industry is the first step to finding out if it’s something you truly want to venture out and do! You can use the experience to make money, learn about your own sexuality and get closer to others.
Managing Your Time and Finances as a Model
Financial independence, creative freedom and entrepreneurial knowledge are all skills you gain as a successful cam model. In order to maximize the longevity of your cam career, time and money management are of the utmost importance and sometimes the most difficult skills to learn.
Managing Fan Messages and Comments on Social Media
Social media outlets are a useful and safe-for-work tool connecting you with your fans. You are able to show off your personality and hobbies to your existing fans, while attracting the interest of new viewers! When first trying to grow your fan base, social media DMs can be used to network and connect followers in the hope of gaining long-time and loyal viewers, though managing your time is key to avoid becoming overwhelmed.
5 Ways to Improve Your Cam Show
There are hundreds of adult cam sites and tens of thousands of cam models, with new ones continuously mushrooming around the globe — all competing for fans’ attention. All this forces a successful model to get more creative. How do you stand out? Go beyond the traditional cam show; consider using new ways to interact with your audience. Our stats show that models who regularly come up with new ideas and use their cam platform’s features to the fullest for their shows attract more new attention.
How to Handle Quiet Chat Rooms on Cam
There is nothing more painful when broadcasting, than a silent cam room. It’s hard on self-confidence, lowers morale and can yield great pressure if you rely on camming for a steady income. Although there is no “quick fix” to the problem, there are definitely techniques that broadcasters can use to help remedy it. If viewers aren’t chatting, aren’t tipping or you are having a hard time getting viewers into your room, it’s going to result in you not having a good time.
Marketing Yourself in the Cam World
The camming industry is growing at a rapid pace and becoming more and more competitive, especially over the last few years. In order to become a top earner in the industry, you need to be focused and treat camming like you would any other career choice. You’ve got to take it seriously and put in the effort in order to see results, because it’s a fast-moving business where you need to work smart to succeed.
A Guide for Beginner Cam Models
Becoming successful as a cam model depends a lot on the personality of each performer and how well one can connect with viewers and fans alike. Online, millions of people converse daily, but how does one go about making a truly intimate connection? Is online success based just on nudity or does connectedness play a huge role? Success is built on developing connections and really showing people what you like and what feels good.
Fun Cam Activities to Engage Fans
In the world of becoming a cam star, being seen on cam is only step 1. In order to stand out, you need to bring creativity into your shows and generate fun moments during you broadcast. As a cam performer, there are days when we aren’t sure about what to do and tend to get stuck with the same type of routine show. In this article, I discuss some fun and cheeky ideas to get viewers excited during your next broadcast.
Have cooler heads actually prevailed in our standoff with Iran?
Thank God. Based on the President’s Jan. 8 White House remarks, it appears that we have stepped back from the abyss. Cooler heads — probably in the Pentagon — seem to have prevailed. Although those remarks were laden with the usual lies, bellicosity, and obsession with President Obama, there was no announcement or threat of further military action against Iran.
Have cooler heads actually prevailed in our standoff with Iran?
Thank God. Based on the President’s Jan. 8 White House remarks, it appears that we have stepped back from the abyss. Cooler heads — probably in the Pentagon — seem to have prevailed. Although those remarks were laden with the usual lies, bellicosity, and obsession with President Obama, there was no announcement or threat of further military action against Iran.
Seeking Support From Cam Networks, Talent Community
In the world of camming, there are thousands of people who wish to develop a cam career or simply wish to experiment online. Either way, both sets of scenarios require you to learn the inner fundamentals of how a platform works, what those viewers like to see, what features there are to help you develop a show and how often you should appear online. The biggest question is, how can you make money and become a legend while utilizing the support resources offered to most cam performers?
How Much to Charge Viewers on Cam
Knowing how much to charge — and clearly stating it in your tip goal and broadcast window — is almost as important as performing your show when it comes to being successful and maximizing your tips. In the world of cam culture, everyone knows that nothing comes for free. In this article, we discuss the balance between charging too much and charging the right amount where both parties get a benefit from the live show.
Rockstars walk among us in County of Brant and Norfolk County
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