“One of the workers looked at my wife and went, ‘Oh, did you guys adopt her?’ Our daughter doesn’t look like us so she answers yes. And then the worker goes, ‘Was her birth mother on drugs?’. Why does she jump to the assumption that her birth mother had to be on drugs for her to be up for adoption?” Slavin continued, “Our eyes opened once we adopted our daughter. We hate that it took until then to realize these things, but that was our starting point.