I have 4 friends. Not 4 close friends. 4 friends, full stop. And I’m being generous with one of them. My definition is strict. A friend is someone who can hear the ugly, unedited version of your life and not flinch. Someone who doesn’t immediately try to fix you, reframe you, or pivot to their own story. Someone you can sit with and do absolutely nothing (no agenda, no occasion, no reason) and that’s enough. And when they need the same from you, you show up without being asked.