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She shined a light on CTE-the disease no one wants to see
Ann McKee has lost track of how many human brains she’s held. “Probably 3,000, not anything more than that,” she says casually. Most people haven’t held even one. But one of the largest collections of brains in the world lies nestled in the Boston area, and McKee is its steward.
Refinery’s Hotel Of Horrors Will Give You The Spookiest Stay Of Your Dreams
Growing up, I was never a huge fan of haunted houses or scary movies. I would skip over the Halloween episodes of my favorite shows because they would spook me for days. As an adult, though, I'm much more welcoming to the endless thrills that come with the holiday and seek out festive experiences like Refinery's Hotel of Horrors. The idea of staying in a luxe suite that's been transformed to trick, treat, and spook at every moment sounds beyond exhilarating.
This Potion Making 101 Class At The James New York Is Totally Witchin'
Every year when October rolls around, you may have two important items on your agenda: cuddling up on the couch and watching Hocus Pocus, and heading into the city for a few fab-boo-lous nights with your friends. Those nights might include dressing up in costumes and attending ~spooky~ events like this Potion Making 101 class at The James New York - NoMad. Spoiler alert: It's totally witchin' and made for a bestie crew who adores everything related to Halloween.
What is financial therapy? The link between money and your mental health
My anxiety has never been higher than when I started out as a freelancer four years ago. Panic washed over me as I sent clients âjust following upâ emails about past-due payments and did mental gymnastics devising ways to minimize my already meager expenses. I struggled to fall asleep at night, unsure of whether an invoice I had sent would be processed before rent came due. Despite my hustle, the sad state of my bank account made me feel like an utter failure.
12 Tweets About Relationships Not Working Out That'll Make You Say #ItMe
Is there anything more disheartening than the harsh realization that your relationship simply isnât working? I think not. Very often, itâs not for lack of effort or love, either. Sometimes, no matter how many honest conversations a couple has, or therapy sessions they attend, or relationship advice articles they read, they just canât hack it. Perhaps thatâs what makes the many tweets about relationships not working out so devastating to read â theyâre relatable AF.
16 Texts To Send When You're Horny & You Get To See Your Partner Later
So, you're feeling horny on main, meaning you are absolutely and without a doubt DTF and you don't care who knows it. Whether you're trying to seduce your partner of a few years when they come home after work, or a FWB you're "hanging out" with later, you can tease your partner by keeping some texts to send when you're horny on hand.
This Ball Pit Party In NYC Will Be The Highlight Of Your Weekend & Insta Feed
In my opinion, no city does weekends like New York City. The land of skyscrapers, neon billboards, bustling sidewalks, and incredible food is always up to something fun and exciting, whether it be a pop-up shop in SoHo or a concert in the middle of Times Square. But this ball pit party in NYC called "Festiballs" is the latest and greatest event you need to attend this September. It'll be the highlight of your weekend and Instagram feed.
6 Late Night Sex Moves To Try After A Party To End Your Evening With A Bang
The food and drinks are dwindling. Everyone is starting to funnel out. Despite the music, which is still playing weirdly loud, it's clear that the night is winding down â for some people, that is. Whether you hit it off with a sultry stranger or you're feeling the heat with your longtime boo, you're about to turn this house party into a party in the bedroom. A party of two, that is.
10 Horrible Fights People Have Been In With Their SOs Thatâll Make Yours Look Like Spats
Chances are at one point or another, you and your partner will fight. Whether it's over something that's may seem insignificant, like a towel left on the floor, or something that's could feel like a big deal, like your partner constantly talking to their ex, it's probably going to happen. And that's OK. It's normal to have it out with bae from time to time, as long as you're not constantly fighting.
If You Aren't Into Hookup Culture, You're Probably One Of These 3 Personality Types
If you tend to date people for a while or if you've never really been into one-night flings, there could be many reasons why you aren't into hookup culture. Hookups aren't for everyone, and if you like to see someone for a while before getting physical or you have no interest in being friends with benefits â it's always OK to express what you're looking for in a relationship.
If Your Relationship Is Super Sexy, You'll Notice These 11 Signs
Relationships take on many forms. Whether you and your high school crush fell happily in love or you've been exclusively smooching your college cutie for a while, falling in love means something different to everyone. After dating someone for a while, you may start to wonder if your red hot love is losing a little steam. After a couple of months, or even years of being a party of two, it's natural to question if your relationship is super sexy.
6 Women Reveal The Most Terrible Fights They've Had In Relationships
No matter how long you've been dating someone, sometimes it's completely natural to argue. Whether you and your partner are fussing over family matters or you just had a blowout battle about where to go out for dinner, hearing about the terrible relationship fights other couples have had can be super helpful in understanding your own relationship better.
The One Thing You'll Notice If Your Partner Is Falling Out Of Love, According To A Therapist
All relationships have natural ebbs and flows. No matter how long you've been seeing someone, having little arguments here and there or taking a break from the sexy stuff can sometimes be super healthy. But if you've been feeling a little disconnected from you boo for a while or if the fights seem more frequent, you may be wondering if your partner is falling out of love with you.
Here's What It Means To Have "Trust Issues" In Relationships, According To Experts
Similarly to "DTR" or "open dialogue," the phrase "trust issues" gets used a lot when talking about dating. But what does it mean to have trust issues? Although it's something that's frequently said, the notion can still feel a bit vague. If you're slow to trust or have a hard time feeling comfortable with new people, taking a step back to unpack what trust issues *really* are and how they impact relationships can provide you with some serious aha moments about how your navigate relationships.
Here's How Long To Date Before Sleeping Over, According To 9 Women
Whether you sleep with a new boo on the first date, after getting married, or literally never — when it comes to sex, the only rule is consent. If you and your partner(s) are consenting adults, getting it on in whatever way feels right is right. And while your preferences are your own, it can sometimes be helpful to hear the experiences of others when finding what works best for you.
How Do You Set Emotional Boundaries When Dating? 5 Women Revealed Their Secrets & I'm In Awe
In talking about healthy relationships, one word that comes up again and again is boundaries. And it may seem counterintuitive, too: After all, isn’t the goal to become closer to the one you love, not distance yourself from them? So how do you set emotional boundaries when dating without putting walls up? The truth is, boundaries can be what ultimately strengthens your bond by bolstering your sense of self.
Here's Why It Can Actually Be Good For You To Remember Your Dreams, According To An Expert
You were tossing and turning all night, and you remember the dream you had so vividly, as if it really happened. It’s almost like your dreams kept you up all night. Wait, that doesn’t make sense. If you were dreaming then you must’ve been sleepingsoundly, right? So does dreaming mean you’re getting good sleep? Or does it mean you went on an excellent adventure at the expense of your beauty rest?
6 Wise Pieces Of Advice From Older Sisters About Falling In Love, Because Big Sis Knows Best
Confession: For as long as I can remember, I’ve had what I can only describe as “sister envy.” While spending time at my bestie’s house growing up, I observed the hilarious banter, the meaningful conversations, and the profound bonding that happened between her and her sibling, and I silently cursed my only child status. To me, it seemed that having an older sister had so many perks.
Can You Learn A Language In Your Sleep? Science Says It Could Be Possible, So Here's How You Can Try
Every few weeks or so, I start planning to travel to Europe. I've never actually booked anything, but I love researching cute Airbnb places on the coast of Italy, or looking up trains that could take me from Paris to Provence. Of course, then I start adding up costs, calculating travel times, and trying to decipher brochures that are all Greek to me (literally), and I get a little discouraged.
Here's How To Know If Your Partner Is Keeping A Big Secret, Because The Signs Are Easy To Miss
Feeling comfortable sharing intimate topics with your partner can take time. What you may think is a "secret" may just be your boo taking the time they need. "The more you know, the more you know your partner. However information can be shared and discovered over the course of a relationship," Dr. Klapow says.
If You're Still Mourning Your Ex A Year After Breaking Up, Experts Say You Shouldn't Worry
The same way every person is different, every breakup is different, and so is the healing process that comes after. You may have had breakups in your past that were somewhat easier to accept and move on from, while others may have been particularly difficult to endure. Getting over someone who meant so much to you at one point in your life can take a lot out of you, especially if the love you had for them was incredibly strong.
Here’s How To Tell If You Like Someone — Just Not Enough To Date Them
If you've always seen your life going a certain way — a wedding in a barn with lots of peonies (me) or being single Pringle forever, it can be hard to tell what you're trying to do with your boo right now, from what you see for yourself in the future. "Speak your feelings as they are now not as a permanent state, 'Here’s how I feel about us today, as of right now, where we are in this stage of our relationship.' You don’t know how you are going to feel in a week, month etc," Dr. Klapow says.
7 Women Talk About The Most Surprisingly-Good Sex They've Ever Had & I'm Screaming
There's a certain joy that comes with finding what you think is an amazing 70s dress, only to learn that the garment is, in fact, a 70s jumpsuit. This feeling — that you were already going to buy an item for it's pattern or color and then finding that it hits your curves and makes you feel like Jackie Burkhart — can only be compared to having surprisingly-good sex. You're already in, and into it, but the sex being better than expected is a new level of happy.
4 Signs Your Crush Thinks You Text Too Much, Even Though You're Just Being Yourself
Let me preface by saying that women and femmes being called any variation of "too much" or "a lot" always rubs me the wrong way. From the time we are born, society seems to expect refined behavior from us. My mother's literal advice to "just blend in" with my classmates still simmers in my mind. Today, I am proud to grace the world as I am: loud, powerful, and oftentimes, quick-witted.
If You're Feeling Ready To Come Out In College, This Expert Advice Might Help
If you don't know anything about how to come out in college, you'd have a lot in common with my college-aged self. Back then, I knew I wanted to talk about my queerness, but I didn't have any idea how to go about it. As a result, I don't have a great story about coming out in college. I wish I did, but mine wasn't so smooth.
Forgiving Your Partner For Sexting Someone Else Isn't Easy, But Experts Say It's Possible
We can't really do much in this world without forgiveness. It helps you move forward when you find yourself stuck holding onto a years-long grudge. It helps you let go of what might be holding you back. But forgiveness is hard. Part of you may still be hurting from whatever happened back then, and that's why letting go has been such a long and exhausting process.
Is It Normal To Not Like Sex The First Time You Have It? An Expert Explains What’s Going On
Imagine this: You've just had sex for the first time, and it was so not like how all those rom-coms made it seem. There was no soft music playing in the background, and no moment of pure ecstasy where your eyes opened wide, perfectly in tune with the music. Truth is, not everyone out there has a good first time, but that shouldn't hold you back from trying again. That's why I asked the experts one not-so simple question: Is it normal to not like sex the first time you have it?
What Does It Mean If You Don't Have A Type? Here’s What Experts Have To Say
"Everyone has a type." I've heard this over and over again, but is it really true? Are we repeatedly drawn to the same type of person? For some people, the answer is yes. But for others, the kind of people they find themselves drawn to may vary. Maybe the hipster next door was your first love, but the athlete in your college chemistry class was your true love. So what does it mean if you don't have a type? Is it a bad thing? Is there something wrong with your taste in partners? Absolutely not.
4 Red Flags Your Partner Talks To You In An Unhealthy Way, Because That’s So Not OK
Most of the time you spend with your partner is probably going to involve some form of communication. Whether you're trying to get your joint schedule for the week solidified, or you're having intense conversations about things going on in your relationship — how you and your partner talk to each other can make a big difference in the way your partnership plays out in the long run. That's why knowing how to spot the red flags your partner talks to you in an unhealthy way is crucial.
10 Myths About Adulthood That'll Make You Want To Confront All Of The Grown-Ups In Your Life
Why the heck were you so eager to grow up? Yeah, that level of independence was admirable as a kid, but seriously, what were you thinking? You heard the moans and groans about adulthood from the grown-ups around you, yet you were convinced our experiences would be different. Maybe it's because you pinpointed those myths about adulthood early on, and now it's time to confront those older folks. (I mean it.
11 Women Reveal Their Most Vivid Sex Dreams, Because Everyone Has Them
First and foremost, there is nothing to be ashamed of when it comes to having sex dreams. I want to put that out there right away, because now I'm going to confess one of mine, and I don't want you to judge me! My most vivid sex dream was one where I got it on with Vladimir Putin. Yes, this is a true story. But the slumbering heart wants what it wants, and apparently that night mine wanted to get freaky with a monstrous dictator. (Pun intended).
The Best Fall Presets For Insta Are Here Just In Time For Your #SweaterWeather Pics
You know it's fall when you see the hashtag, #sweaterweather. In that moment, you realize the world has come to terms with the end of summer and is ready to snuggle up. Girls from campus or around your office are posting pictures in pumpkin patches, and talking about their apple picking plans. So, inevitably, you get on board and start thinking about cute pictures you could get in your flannel, or throwing up the fall leaves. What will fit in with your feed?
Your White Noise Machine Might Help You Sleep, But Science Says There's A Catch
It used to be impossible for me to fall asleep unless I had music playing through the night. I’d put my five-CD, disc-changing stereo on repeat, plug headphones into a miniature MP3 that I’d lay at the side of my pillow, and typically end up falling asleep within minutes. The music genre didn’t really matter, although I did somewhat prefer dance tunes to classical tracks. One sound I've never gotten into, however, is white noise.
These 3 Zodiac Signs Will Have The Worst Fall, But Winter Will Be Better
There's no doubt about it: Summer 2018 was one wild and terrifying ride. With several planetary retrogrades happening at the same time as an explosive eclipse season that had us hiding for cover, this wasn't your average summer. Instead of feeling high on careless freedom and positive vibrations, our cosmos were rattling our cages and asking us to rise to the occasion. If you're like me, you've been waiting for autumn with bated breath.
This New Study Revealed How Long A Hangover Really Lasts, So You May Want To Stay In Bed
Sometimes when you party with alcohol, you end up partying harder than you meant to: One beer turns into two, your best friend hands you a shot, her SO buys another round, and before you know it, it’s 11 a.m. the next morning, and your head is pounding something fierce. You check the time, moaning and groaning because you’re pretty sure your last sip was around midnight at the latest, and if that’s the case, why are you still feeling it?
7 Regrets You'll Have If You're Always Planning For The Future
Put your planner down. You're way too caught up in thinking of the next best thing and where you'll be in five years. Gel pens are sprinkled all over your desk, along with sticky notes that are motivating you to chase after your dreams. That's OK, and your ambition is going to lead to amazing things. But, it's easy to lose yourself and what really matters in the pursuit of — well, everything else. It's time to take a step back and follow a slightly different course.
What Are Active Dreams? Here's Why You Talk In Your Sleep & Act Out Your Dreams
One of my favorite things growing up was going on vacation with my three siblings. Oftentimes, all four of us would cram into one hotel room together, annoying each other long after bedtime. Things always got even funnier in the morning, when we'd compare stories of weird things we all did throughout the night. While one of us would always talk in his sleep, another would repeatedly kick the person beside her.
The Workouts That Make Sex Better All Focus On This One Muscle, According To An Expert
Everyone deserves to have amazing, thoroughly enjoyable, beyond-satisfying sex. So if you knew there were certain workouts that could notably improve your sex life, wouldn't you want to try them? Even if you're not exactly what one would call a typical "gym rat"? I'm not kidding around: There really are a number of workouts that can make sex feel better, that have nothing to do with planks or push-ups and everything to do with the one, the only, pelvic floor.
10 Myths About College That You Really Shouldn't Believe As A Freshman
Oh, myths. You believe them because you've heard them so often that they must be factual, right? That couldn't be more wrong. As a freshman, you should go into your first year of college with a fresh perspective — and debunking myths about college will send you on your way with an open mind. (Clutter-free is the way to be, am I right?) Most myths are told to you because the person on the other end likely thinks they'll help you in some way.
9 Incredibly Common Sex Myths That Simply Aren't True, According To Sexperts
There are a lot of misconceptions about sex out there. This is a result of a lot of different societal factors — like the fact that only 13 states in the U.S. require their sex ed to be medically accurate, and that there's a lot of shame surrounding open communication about sex. There's also sexism, homophobia, and heteronormativity to blame for a lot of myths when it comes to LGBTQ+ sex and women's bodies. No one can blame you for not being totally up to date on what's true and what's not.
15 Things To Know Before Leaving For College & Saying Goodbye To Your Hometown
Your hometown and the people in it have likely played an important role in your life. You might not have lived away from home for a long period of time before, so going off to college can be an intimidating thought at first. I mean, how do you even know how to "college," if you've never done it before?
If Your Partner Always Puts Your Pleasure First, They’re Probably One Of These 3 Zodiac Signs
Want to know my best tip for the most incredible sex life? Of course you do. Well, here it is: Find yourself a lover who puts your pleasure in the bedroom first. Pretty simple, right? But it's true. Nothing matters more when it comes to great sex than being with someone who truly cares that you're enjoying yourself, and who not only wants to satisfy you, but actually gets off on it. But how do you find these mythical sexy-time unicorns?
How To Feel Awake After A Nap With These 6 Life Hacks That Don't Even Involve Coffee
Naps are the basically the closest thing to heaven on earth for the average human. When you're feeling tired, and you have a Sunday afternoon with nothing on your schedule, it's the best feeling in the world to melt into a nap and sleep for as long as you like — except when it leaves you feeling all kinds of out of it once you wake up. For people who have trouble figuring out how to feel awake after a nap, sleeping for too long is one of the first no-no's to be aware of.
Am I Dating A Chronic Liar? Here Are 3 Signs You Might Be & Should GTFO
Women’s intuition is not a myth, y’all. We’re perceptive AF, and even though not all of us can tell when we’re being lied to, many of us can tell when the person we’re dating is being sketchy. Being in a relationship with someone whose dishonesty is apparent from the very beginning is probably not the best idea, but a lot of times, you don’t know you’re dating a chronic liar until it’s too late.
7 Struggles Dealing With The Flaky Best Friend, Even Though You Love Them
Categorizing someone as your best friend is accepting their personality package deal. No one's perfect, and you really do love everything about this person and couldn't imagine not having a friendship with them. But sometimes, those little not-so-awesome qualities are a struggle to deal with. This much can be said about your best friend who is so, so flaky. You have to learn how to deal with a flaky friend, or you'll end up feeling super spent.
What Does Squirting Feel Like? People Reveal How Female Ejaculation Feels To Them
Female ejaculation, commonly referred to as "squirting," is one of those sex happenings that not everyone can experience. It's not someone's fault if they can't squirt, and it's not their partner's fault either. Both squirting and not squirting are totally normal. Experts have not been able to decipher why some people can and others can't, but when it comes to what squirting feels like, there are a few things those who've experienced it can agree on.
How Does Female Ejaculation Work? Here Are 8 Important Facts Everyone Should Know
People with vaginas can do amazing things — we know this. Babies can come out of them. Monthly periods let us know that our bodies are healthy, and even when we're bleeding, we can literally do anything. Vaginas even clean themselves, for crying out loud! Yet another amazing thing the vagina can do is ejaculate, AKA female ejaculation, commonly referred to as squirting.
Here's Exactly How You'll Fall In Love, Based On Your Astrological Sign
One of my favorite things about learning about my zodiac sign and others' is learning patterns about my behavior that I can acknowledge and use to my advantage. As a Scorpio sun sign, I know I'm typically described as mysterious, drawn to loyal people, and basically the Satan of the zodiac. To learn more about how you'll fall in love according to your zodiac sign, I spoke with astrologer Kimberly Peta Dewhirst.
5 Best Apps For Pictures, If Your Instagram Game Is In Need Of A Serious Upgrade
You're a social media butterfly, with a serious need of an upgrade. Our modern world calls for cute pictures and even better captions. At this point, you might have mastered how to properly edit a photo, find the right filter, or locate a pun. Those skills are all essential to your social media game, and are sure to snag you some followers along the way. Don't stop there, and challenge yourself to get even better on the 'Gram.
The Best Vibrators For Queer Babes On Valentine's Day & Every Day
Valentine's Day is right around the corner, and if you're looking for a new, fun toy to pleasure yourself or your significant other, then the folks at Le Wand and Unbound have got you covered. From a wand accessory that takes the fumbling out of finding the elusive G-spot to an egg-shaped vibe that's nicer than a rubber ducky in the tub, these adult toys provide a stimulating and intimate way for you and your partner to explore one another's bodies and provide mutual pleasure.
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