Not paying child support is a violation of a court order that the state enforces aggressively through wage withholding, seized tax refunds, suspended licenses, and, in serious cases, jail. Enforcement is largely automatic, and the debt is unusually hard to escape. Wage withholding: Payments are pulled straight from your paycheck. Seized refunds and assets: Tax refunds, bank accounts, and property can be taken. Lost licenses: Driver’s, professional, and recreational licenses can be suspended.