"We have to talk." If you work for a company with two or more employees, these four words will strike terror in what's left of your nervous system. But before you reply with a thoughtful response, like "Do we? Why?" or "I think not," or my personal favorite, "Not tonight. I have a headache," consider the possibility that someday, the person initiating the convo could be y-o-u. The talk you need to have may be with a co-worker, a manager or the CEO; it doesn't matter.