You Better Walk’s gatherings have attracted as many as 300 people at one time. Roughly a year ago, Jasper St. James had a lightbulb moment that nicely illustrates the Beyoncé-approved proverb, “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” St. James, a certified sex educator and founding member of the burlesque troupe the Pastie Pops, had just learned he was losing his job because his longtime employer Sexology Institute was closing its doors after a decade in Southtown.