We spend a huge amount of time making assumptions, judging, and analysing who we are, either in relation to others or in the way we perform. Our perceptions often fall into verbal expressions such as: “What did I say?”, “What did he or she say?”, “What should I have said that I didn’t?”, and so on. Verbal expression is an important part of our lives, but it accounts for only around 20% of our overall communication — at least that is what we are often taught when studying psychotherapy.