“You’re a great guy but there’s something I need to tell you,” he said despondently, eyes pointed toward the table between us, his warm hands resting atop mine. He looked me in the eyes before continuing on. “I don’t see this going any further. I really wanted to get there, but it’s just not there for me. I truly wish you nothing but the best, but I can’t keep seeing you.” We shared a somber walk to the subway where he dropped me off. Then the dam broke.