Posted on: July 20th, 2020 by Christi Ashby A few years ago, I experienced the grandest “a-ha” moment of my life – and it would change everything. As an eternal optimist I always pictured the perfect scene. Leading up to the subject of my vision I was blissfully happy and excited about what was to come. One Christmas when I was about 6, I anxiously awaited Santa’s arrival with my dreamed-about doll. I imagined playing with my neighborhood friends later in the day.