Perry Kay spends her afternoons learning the programming language Python, making videos for TikTok and YouTube, and binging Netflix - her latest watch is "Trust Me: The False Prophet" - from her bedroom in a house she shares with several other Orthodox and ex-Orthodox Jewish people. Other days, she heads to a nearby lake. She doesn't have a car, but she's learned how to get where she wants to go. Nowadays, she wears shorts, long banned from her wardrobe.