You're all revved up and ready to have phone sex with your partner, and then the phone rings and all you can think of saying is: "I wanna li-li-li-lick you from your head to your toes, and I wanna move from the bed, down to the, down to the to the floor." Phone conversations are hard, particularly when you're supposed to sound sexy. How to initiate phone sex? There's no set way to do it, but it comes down to communication.