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第一次約會誰出錢？一份讓結帳不尷尬的指南：沒有標準答案，但有兩個禁忌

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By Eileen Kelly, Patricia Garcia, Zuya Zheng
| Vogue Taiwan Verified
「第一次約會」這件事本身已經夠尷尬了，當服務生把帳單放在桌上那一刻更是讓人如坐針氈。從前從前，社會約定俗成的習慣是男人負責買單，但現在已經是2026年，性別角色已經大大不同，舊規矩還適用嗎？ 讓我們參考《艾蜜莉波斯特禮儀指南Emily Post’sEtiquette》一書第18版，建議是「第一次約會應由邀約的一方買單，除非雙方事先約定好各出各的。」但在Tinder的時代，很難界定誰是主動的一方，或許是先往右滑的那個人？主動聊天的那個人？由此可看出現代這個界線越來越模糊，還挺讓人困惑的。 為了更貼近現實，我在下午茶時間問了美國Vogue同事，希望編輯同事們能就「第一次約會晚餐該怎麼付帳」說說自己的經驗和心得。為了鼓勵大家毫無保留地分享並顧及隱私，以下意見均為匿名：...
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